General Discussion

Dont know much knowing now that

Hello, I’m a demipolysexual (demisexual + polysexual) person who uses she/they pronouns! I’m still questioning my gender, but if I’m being honest, I don’t think I’ll find a label for it. That doesn’t bother me too much, though; I don’t really need a label!

Is it just me, or does anyone else care about one part of their identity more than other parts? For example, I like to have a specific label for my sexuality, but I don’t care so much about my gender.

[quote name="End0fTime" date="2021-09-15 16:12:07" ] Hello, I’m a demipolysexual (demisexual + polysexual) person who uses she/they pronouns! I’m still questioning my gender, but if I’m being honest, I don’t think I’ll find a label for it. That doesn’t bother me too much, though; I don’t really need a label! Is it just me, or does anyone else care about one part of their identity more than other parts? For example, I like to have a specific label for my sexuality, but I don’t care so much about my gender. [/quote] Hi hi! Welcome :> Tbh its my first time seeing someone poly so, hi :> also for the question I didn't rly experience that until learning about other gender identities >w<

Yo, I just came out to my new science teacher and the school is very open so yessss. Progress!

[quote name="SpiritFlower" date="2021-09-15 17:05:48" ] Yo, I just came out to my new science teacher and the school is very open so yessss. Progress! [/quote] YO, congrats! I'm so happy to see people being accepted ;w;

[quote name="Xionahri" date="2021-09-15 03:11:38" ] I'm currently haunted by a memory and feel the need to apologize. Around six years or so, I was mildly transphobic towards certain genders, throwing around terms like 'SJW' and 'special snowflake', even. Some of that was even after I was out being agender. *smh* But, well over time, I've mellowed out a lot. Still don't get everything, but live and let live. Everyone's valid the way they are. But damn, I'm sorry for having been a jerk in the past, even if it was so long ago. [/quote] I know exactly what you mean. When I was younger I just didn't understand trans people and had difficulty accepting the ones I knew. And now I'm definitely not cis. Thinking of those times often makes me want to throw up, and I get so mad. So let me say this. WE. NEED. TO. EDUCATE. KIDS. ABOUT. TRANS. PEOPLE. It will cause so much less harm.

[quote name="bookperson" date="2021-09-15 18:12:55" ] WE. NEED. TO. EDUCATE. KIDS. ABOUT. TRANS. PEOPLE. It will cause so much less harm. [/quote] Ikr [i]sad times[/i]

time for the daily struggle: am i nb or just a nonfeminine cis girl?

@psychae

It can be a tricky one. Maybe try out different pronouns, see if any give you a happy feeling of contentment. Try writing or speaking about yourself as a nonbinary person vs a woman, and see which ones seem to feel more right.

Also, I'm personally a very feminine afab enby, and I'm quite happy being a nonbinary house spouse :)

i just want to throw this out there

never, ever, tell someone that they're not "trans enough." it causes so much harm