it's been rough lately for me to find good friends who wont drop me when they realize how badly introverted i am, smh. kind of where my anxiety comes into play too and i dont blame them really, i see how it would get annoying having me around, the unsocial friend lol
especially when im being introduced to someone??? wow get me outta here
it's been rough lately for me to find good friends who wont drop me when they realize how badly introverted i am, smh. kind of where my anxiety comes into play too and i dont blame them really, i see how it would get annoying having me around, the unsocial friend lol
especially when im being introduced to someone??? wow get me outta here
*goes out to a party/ get together in the attempt to make more friends in a town i've lived in for over a year now. Said yes i'd go a week prior, right now not wanting to.*
*Sits and listens to conversation quietly and not thinking of anything substantial to add to the conversation till 2 topics later.*
*Jumps at the chance to help tidy up with the host for something to do.*
*goes out to a party/ get together in the attempt to make more friends in a town i've lived in for over a year now. Said yes i'd go a week prior, right now not wanting to.*
*Sits and listens to conversation quietly and not thinking of anything substantial to add to the conversation till 2 topics later.*
*Jumps at the chance to help tidy up with the host for something to do.*
[quote name="keet" date=2016-07-22 12:34:24]
Me: Gee I want to go out today!
Brain: people will be there
Me: Nevermind
[/quote]
ME!!
~~~~~~
I have problems going to the gym, I HATE THEM. Too many people there and I can't stand the Sport clothes.
I also have a problem talking with others, like Im feel like I'm going to disturb others.
keet wrote on 2016-07-22:
Me: Gee I want to go out today!
Brain: people will be there
Me: Nevermind
ME!!
~~~~~~
I have problems going to the gym, I HATE THEM. Too many people there and I can't stand the Sport clothes.
I also have a problem talking with others, like Im feel like I'm going to disturb others.
The biggest introvert problem I have is honestly when I'm forced to go somewhere or I have to go, or even I've agreed to go, and it drains me and it takes me an exceptionally long time afterwards to recover.
It's even worse if I don't get to leave the party or place of social gathering when I want to, as in, I don't have a ride or a car.
I've often noticed that right around the time I finally recover from the last outing, there's usually another "mandatory" outing right around the corner. :\
The biggest introvert problem I have is honestly when I'm forced to go somewhere or I have to go, or even I've agreed to go, and it drains me and it takes me an exceptionally long time afterwards to recover.
It's even worse if I don't get to leave the party or place of social gathering when I want to, as in, I don't have a ride or a car.
I've often noticed that right around the time I finally recover from the last outing, there's usually another "mandatory" outing right around the corner. :\
*finally makes plans with someone and goes through with it*
*falls asleep because social contact is exhausting*
Me: "It's so nice out, I think I'll go for a walk in town."
(10 minutes later)
*Random person starts talking to me.*
Me: WHAT HAVE I DONE.
*Me reading a book*
Person: Hey, what are you reading.
Me: "Oh, it's a great novel called Don't talk to me I'm reading."
*Flips page with middle finger*
Me: "It's so nice out, I think I'll go for a walk in town."
(10 minutes later)
*Random person starts talking to me.*
Me: WHAT HAVE I DONE.
*Me reading a book*
Person: Hey, what are you reading.
Me: "Oh, it's a great novel called Don't talk to me I'm reading."
*Flips page with middle finger*
When people call their shyness/anxiety/general misanthropy introversion.
When people call their shyness/anxiety/general misanthropy introversion.
Public speaking in school.
If you have an injury you can skip gym.
If you have social axiety or extreme introversion, why can't you skip public speaking?
Public speaking in school.
If you have an injury you can skip gym.
If you have social axiety or extreme introversion, why can't you skip public speaking?
no
[quote name="Firetear" date=2016-07-22 14:59:14]
Two words: PHONE. CALLS.
-screams-
[/quote]
Firetear wrote on 2016-07-22:
Two words: PHONE. CALLS.
-screams-
I once was at school and decided to get something from the lunch line. *walks into line*
Me: O.o
Brain: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! MORE THAN 10 PEOPLE RUN AWAYYYY!!!
Me: *Runs out of line to my lunch table and tells friend about the incident*
save meh
I once was at school and decided to get something from the lunch line. *walks into line*
Me: O.o
Brain: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! MORE THAN 10 PEOPLE RUN AWAYYYY!!!
Me: *Runs out of line to my lunch table and tells friend about the incident*
save meh
