General Discussion

@Lemures

Thank you very much for your support! Although, now I'm starting to second-guess myself and have doubts, which tends to happen a lot during this "time of the month".

I may have jumped the gun a little bit with my coming out post, because my fluctuating hormones give me terrible mood swings and negatively impact my mental health, so I may have been too hasty in putting a label on myself.

I actually tend to feel most comfortable identifying as bi/pan. The so-called "bi-cycle" hits me really hard at different times. In general, I tend to feel much more attracted to feminine people as I approach that "time of the month", while at other times I'm more often attracted to masculine people.

But anyway, JoJo has helped me in so many ways. It's safe to say that it's my favorite anime/manga of all time, which is really saying a lot because I've been watching anime/reading manga longer than some of the users here have even been alive!

i’m so happy
me and my crush can text each other now?? one on one?? and as i know her more, the more our dark humor matches perfectly

but i don’t know if i have a crush, is the thing

@capriciousCatnip Hah, I get that. Changing your labels or not choosing to have any at has always worked for tons of people! Either way, whichever you choose to identify as, you'll always have solidarity with everyone else in the community :)

what's up mfs, i'm gay and can't do math

[quote name="caelafireheart" date="2021-07-30 09:02:24" ] what's up mfs, i'm gay and can't do math [/quote] im gay and can do math obviously superior /j

labels can be so confusing at times. like i'm very attached to my label as toric, but rubian (nblm + wlm) also fits me so i'm like ;w; aaaaaa what to do

@StarrberryPills what does toric mean? I'm just curious, I've never heard it. Rubian sounds interesting, is that for nb people who also identify as women (like genderfluid?)

@Mothra38
toric is nblm. and rubian is for nonbinary people who are also women yeah

@StarrberryPills oh, I see, thank you for explaining. I know more specific labels help (that's why I like agender, as my more specific version of nonbinary) but maybe a less specific label would help, like bi or pan? That would cover your attraction without taking away from your identity (I'm also pan/bi)

@Mothra38
the thing is i believe i'm exclusively attracted to men, but i feel uncomfortable calling myself "straight" because i'm nonbinary. so toric works for me