Transmasc, Omni romantic, polyamorous and gay.
top 2 best compliments I've gotten:
"Sometimes I forget your a girl..."
"Wait, you want to be a girl?"
the second was from someone I had forgotten to tell I was trans.
I'm doing my job right.
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I'm going to find this man
https://youtube.com/shorts/tRBX-L_EMkM?si=eBBcTZDbmDJgERbc
Transmasc, Omni romantic, polyamorous and gay.
top 2 best compliments I've gotten:
"Sometimes I forget your a girl..."
"Wait, you want to be a girl?"
the second was from someone I had forgotten to tell I was trans.
I'm doing my job right.
:>
I'm going to find this man
https://youtube.com/shorts/tRBX-L_EMkM?si=eBBcTZDbmDJgERbc
[font=calibri]Heya! I'm a raging bisexual.
Anywho, right now I'm kinda living through my 'novel romance' chapter- as in, when something's going so textbook perfect that it feels like an extract from a love story come to life. AAAAH!! I knew my time would come!~
It can be really hard as a bi person to find validation- I've always been met with the 'if you date a boy then you're obviously just saying you're bisexual for the attention, but if you date a girl than you're obviously just a lesbian and not bi'. I've never felt particularly valid on that front.. and it doesn't help that as an antisocial tomboy, the handful of people I do speak to are guys so everyone assumes I'm just saying it to be quirky or relevant. WHICHHH newsflash,, not the case [emoji=aberration winking size=1]
ANYWAYYY I recently reconnected with a girl i spoke to in high school. we were practically joined at the hip all through exam season, we went to escape rooms all the time and we were inseperable during our 'big final trip' to Iceland. It was a real shame when we went to different colleges bcs we're both so antisocial that we fell out of contact.. until a few weeks ago. I've never really experienced romantic attraction to anybody before, not more than a passing crush anyway, but the first thing i thought when i saw her was 'wow she's still just as pretty as the last time we spoke'. and then I internally fangirled over how long her eyelashes are, how pretty and long her hair is, so on so forth
But we went and had a day out, she bought me a hot chocolate and i bought us both KFC. I didn't know she actually came out as a lesbian whilst we weren't in contact, and she didn't know i'm bi. I think we've both always known we've had crushes on each other but were scared to do or say anything since our town is REALLY bad for homophobia and transphobia. we didn't say much about it but we kept joking about it being a date and were very subtly flirting with each other. we now meet up every week, multiple days a week, and honestly its only a matter of time before one of us decides to put on our big girl boots and confess~
but we always do really cute stuff like sitting in costa sharing a brownie and hot drinks, or getting the train and going out shopping, or i'll get the bus to her house and we'll sit and play Minecraft or watch cheesy movies. I know she knows already but i do love her and it's such a freeing feeling to reconnect and with any hopes end up together.
really, we always should've. and we both know it ^3^
Heya! I'm a raging bisexual.
Anywho, right now I'm kinda living through my 'novel romance' chapter- as in, when something's going so textbook perfect that it feels like an extract from a love story come to life. AAAAH!! I knew my time would come!~
It can be really hard as a bi person to find validation- I've always been met with the 'if you date a boy then you're obviously just saying you're bisexual for the attention, but if you date a girl than you're obviously just a lesbian and not bi'. I've never felt particularly valid on that front.. and it doesn't help that as an antisocial tomboy, the handful of people I do speak to are guys so everyone assumes I'm just saying it to be quirky or relevant. WHICHHH newsflash,, not the case 
ANYWAYYY I recently reconnected with a girl i spoke to in high school. we were practically joined at the hip all through exam season, we went to escape rooms all the time and we were inseperable during our 'big final trip' to Iceland. It was a real shame when we went to different colleges bcs we're both so antisocial that we fell out of contact.. until a few weeks ago. I've never really experienced romantic attraction to anybody before, not more than a passing crush anyway, but the first thing i thought when i saw her was 'wow she's still just as pretty as the last time we spoke'. and then I internally fangirled over how long her eyelashes are, how pretty and long her hair is, so on so forth
But we went and had a day out, she bought me a hot chocolate and i bought us both KFC. I didn't know she actually came out as a lesbian whilst we weren't in contact, and she didn't know i'm bi. I think we've both always known we've had crushes on each other but were scared to do or say anything since our town is REALLY bad for homophobia and transphobia. we didn't say much about it but we kept joking about it being a date and were very subtly flirting with each other. we now meet up every week, multiple days a week, and honestly its only a matter of time before one of us decides to put on our big girl boots and confess~
but we always do really cute stuff like sitting in costa sharing a brownie and hot drinks, or getting the train and going out shopping, or i'll get the bus to her house and we'll sit and play Minecraft or watch cheesy movies. I know she knows already but i do love her and it's such a freeing feeling to reconnect and with any hopes end up together.
really, we always should've. and we both know it ^3^
just wanted to pop in and say i submitted my legal name and gender change papers to the court on tuesday :) february will be my one year testosterone anniversary and then i'm in line for top surgery for march at the earliest. i love being trans and i want other trans people to know it does get better and you can do it!!
just wanted to pop in and say i submitted my legal name and gender change papers to the court on tuesday :) february will be my one year testosterone anniversary and then i'm in line for top surgery for march at the earliest. i love being trans and i want other trans people to know it does get better and you can do it!!
Ah I've finally been able to come out as genderfluid to some people in person and it's, amazing being called "they". Even if that's just the default pronoun I use to avoid confusion with most people it's still just, ACK it makes me feel good.
And later on when I am to go to College(TM) I plan on being very clear about my identity, either that I'm bi or genderfluid, or both. I care not for my homophobic father if I choose to stay with him to save money, I will be gay and proud.
Ah I've finally been able to come out as genderfluid to some people in person and it's, amazing being called "they". Even if that's just the default pronoun I use to avoid confusion with most people it's still just, ACK it makes me feel good.
And later on when I am to go to College(TM) I plan on being very clear about my identity, either that I'm bi or genderfluid, or both. I care not for my homophobic father if I choose to stay with him to save money, I will be gay and proud.
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Lately I'm very happy to be asexual. Whenever I listen to the radio the ads come on and say "you have a lover. you need to buy them an outlandishly expensive gift. you need to do it NOW." But I don't have a lover and I can buy gifts for whoever I please, no obligations attached.
(we all have that friend who makes gifting difficult because they feel pressure about it, but thankfully my friends have all accepted that i just love to give gifts)
Lately I'm very happy to be asexual. Whenever I listen to the radio the ads come on and say "you have a lover. you need to buy them an outlandishly expensive gift. you need to do it NOW." But I don't have a lover and I can buy gifts for whoever I please, no obligations attached.
(we all have that friend who makes gifting difficult because they feel pressure about it, but thankfully my friends have all accepted that i just love to give gifts)
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eyesonthedirt this is such a cute story! I'm really rooting for you and your rekindled flame! It sounds like the two of you have a lot of fun together, and I hope that continues for a long time <3
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eyesonthedirt this is such a cute story! I'm really rooting for you and your rekindled flame! It sounds like the two of you have a lot of fun together, and I hope that continues for a long time <3
@Dawnberry omg! I'm asexual and agender too! I'm an "A" collector as well :3 I have made the joke before that my friends can call me "Triple A" for agender asexual atheist! [emoji=aberration laughing size=1]
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Dawnberry omg! I'm asexual and agender too! I'm an "A" collector as well :3 I have made the joke before that my friends can call me "Triple A" for agender asexual atheist!
shoutout to my boyfriend for opening the can of worms about gender because if he hadn't i don't think i'd ever have come to the terms with the fact that i'm polygender and more than just male. so uh.
shoutout to my boyfriend for opening the can of worms about gender because if he hadn't i don't think i'd ever have come to the terms with the fact that i'm polygender and more than just male. so uh.
Yeah I hate tryna decide mah gender and stuff. I thought I was lesbian/aroace but those were thoughts. I am a genderfluid/any pronouns/aroace. I just love LGBT+ comics!
Yeah I hate tryna decide mah gender and stuff. I thought I was lesbian/aroace but those were thoughts. I am a genderfluid/any pronouns/aroace. I just love LGBT+ comics!
Sometimes being queer feels like it‘s just one crisis after another. The past years have been, among other stuff:
Oh, so I‘m ace? Cool. Wait no, aspec? Ye, fits better.
But do I want romance? Hmmmmmmmm… yep. Demiromantic should do it.
Wait, what do you mean I‘m genderqueer?? Uhhh… no, no, get away with gender, for the purposes of defining it I have NONE. Roll a die for my pronouns or something, then we can get on with other stuff.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU CAN DATE MORE THAN ONE PERSON. AND THEY CAN DATE EACH OTHER. WHY DO I LIKE THE IDEA
At least it rarely gets boring…
Sometimes being queer feels like it‘s just one crisis after another. The past years have been, among other stuff:
Oh, so I‘m ace? Cool. Wait no, aspec? Ye, fits better.
But do I want romance? Hmmmmmmmm… yep. Demiromantic should do it.
Wait, what do you mean I‘m genderqueer?? Uhhh… no, no, get away with gender, for the purposes of defining it I have NONE. Roll a die for my pronouns or something, then we can get on with other stuff.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU CAN DATE MORE THAN ONE PERSON. AND THEY CAN DATE EACH OTHER. WHY DO I LIKE THE IDEA
At least it rarely gets boring…
He/They please!
