General Discussion

Is it just me alone or does anyone else feel bad reading all this talk about "toxic people"?
The way I see it, every person has a reason for behaving the way they do, whether it be a mental disorder, other personal issue or even a personality trait itself. I think it's kind of horrible to call someone toxic unless they do something really, really life wrecking, other than tell their friends how depressed or stressed they are. I think it's a friend's job to support their friend through thick and thin, and of course, it goes both ways.

But then again, it's just my opinion.

@DrValentina

Best of luck to you! <3

I would just not talk to her anymore. I think "I don't want to be your friend!" or "Lala, I'm not talking to you!" is a kind of childish way to approach things. If she's a toxic influence, just let her fall out of your life. She'll get the hint.

@DrValentina
It's these kind of "friends" who messed with my head. If I were you, I would plain drop her, without worrying about her feelings. She has made you feel bad, has she? It's hard, but you don't need these kind of people.
I still have this kind of friend, making me feel offended whenever I would talk to her. And then she calls herself kind to everyone? -.-
At first I thought I was just susceptible, but I guess that girl is just rude.
I want to drop her, but I can't. For two reasons: She's part of my friend group, and these people are my only friends. And loneliness also hurts a lot.