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SkeleLizard24
Hello everyone, i'm just now joining this little conversation. Soooo, lets get into some details.
I identify as pan-sexual and Agender. My literal thoughts on it are: I like human beings. I don't dislike someone for their race, gender, religious beliefs (as long as they can respect my lack of any), or sexuality. I like people for who they are. I've dated four guys, and four girls. Only two of those relationships were happy ones, and i still feel horrible that the last one ended. I'm currently dating a straight, cis male. i love the fact that he takes my sexuality into consideration. Like say if he's talking about relationships or something, he says "boyfriend or girlfriend" when it comes to who i like, instead of just boyfriend since i'm TECHNICALLY a female.
-Coming out-
To my mom: We were standing in the kitchen, and i was telling her about this girl who has been causing me allot of problems. i wasn't very specific about anything at first, but basically what was going on what that my ex girlfriend was telling everyone at school that i abused her and that i wouldn't do anything with her if she came to my house. At some point, i said "when Kortany was my girlfriend" and my mom said "you said girlfriend" and than i said "yes, i know." and all she had to say about it was "oh, okay".
To my dad: i was sitting on the couch, talking to my now other ex girlfriend (we both agreed it would be best to break up, but i'm crying about it all over again now. ANYWAY) on the phone. my dad asked who i was talking to and i said "my girlfriend" and he just stared at me for awhile.
-other stuff-
The only times i've had problems with someone in the LGBT community were these.....
"Transgender isn't a thing"- I was sitting in the computer lab in school, and one of my friends was talking to another girl about sexuality (oh look at that, she was my first girlfriend that kind of ruined my impression of relationships yaaay) The girl, who we'll call gabby for time sake, says "Okay, you're either a guy, or you're a girl. there's no in between. if you're born with a * slur for male part* you're a guy. if you're born with a *slur for girl part*, you're a girl. And there's no such thing as pansexual either, people need to stop making up stupid new things for them selves. there's gay, straight, and bisexual. that's it."
"Guy clothes"- I was sitting on a bus going to a huuuge GSA meeting, and that day i decided that i wanted to look male. so, i wore more masculine looking clothing. I didn't really know what to call them, so i said they were my guy clothes. i really don't see what's wrong with that. Any gender can wear what ever clothes they want, its just fabric. But these were the clothes i wore to have a more male appearance, so, they're my guy clothes. the kid in front of my on the bus looks back with his/her full of they're self look and says "um, that's pretty insensitive. what do you consider 'guy clothes'? Are you saying that because i have a penis, i can't wear a skirt, but YOU can walk around in that and say you're a 'guy'?"
Aaah, sorry for the long post, i got carried away
