@Pertly has a good point, some LDRs can work really well for people who are just exploring their sexuality or preferences as it gives you a safe way to reach out and connect, as well as test out the whole relationship thing while still having a little bit of space, so this can benefit someone with social issues as well. However, I've seen an LDR go real bad BECAUSE it was an exploration of sexuality and the confused person really wasn't in a position to be dating ANYONE. But that's not my story to tell.
@Nuibella It really does strengthen your communication skills and it's very dependent on trust and how hard you're willing to work for it. If you cannot trust each other enough to talk about what's happening in your life or trust them to be truthful with you, it won't go well. And I mean, everyone is EVENTUALLY going to have some breach of trust. It doesn't mean it'll be a huge thing, but it could be as simple as "I went to this party even though I told you I was going to the movies with friends." It's just a part of relationships, but it can be harder to swallow over such a big distance
ALL THESE WORDS OF CAUTION ASIDE, I've been in an LDR for 2 1/2 years now with someone about 300 miles away. He's been an unbelievable support to me and is fantastic at putting up with my bullcrap, including calling me out on it. I feel at home with him around, in a way I've never really felt before. We make an effort to call every day- even if it's only a minute long, although it's probably kinda clingy and we both acknowledge that, so I don't know if I'd suggest it to everyone. We spend a lot of time together playing games-- this works great if you both have the same console and a game with online multiplayer, then just call up on skype or phone and play. There's also emulators that'll let you both play a game and basically pass the controller. We're lucky enough to live as close as we do, so we make an effort to visit every 3 or 4 months at the least. The trip is about 12/13 hours in the end, but hey, it's worth it to us.
I COULD GO ON FOR A WHILE SO I'LL LEAVE IT AT THAT unless someone responds.. it's such a broad topic @n@;;
@Nuibella It really does strengthen your communication skills and it's very dependent on trust and how hard you're willing to work for it. If you cannot trust each other enough to talk about what's happening in your life or trust them to be truthful with you, it won't go well. And I mean, everyone is EVENTUALLY going to have some breach of trust. It doesn't mean it'll be a huge thing, but it could be as simple as "I went to this party even though I told you I was going to the movies with friends." It's just a part of relationships, but it can be harder to swallow over such a big distance
ALL THESE WORDS OF CAUTION ASIDE, I've been in an LDR for 2 1/2 years now with someone about 300 miles away. He's been an unbelievable support to me and is fantastic at putting up with my bullcrap, including calling me out on it. I feel at home with him around, in a way I've never really felt before. We make an effort to call every day- even if it's only a minute long, although it's probably kinda clingy and we both acknowledge that, so I don't know if I'd suggest it to everyone. We spend a lot of time together playing games-- this works great if you both have the same console and a game with online multiplayer, then just call up on skype or phone and play. There's also emulators that'll let you both play a game and basically pass the controller. We're lucky enough to live as close as we do, so we make an effort to visit every 3 or 4 months at the least. The trip is about 12/13 hours in the end, but hey, it's worth it to us.
I COULD GO ON FOR A WHILE SO I'LL LEAVE IT AT THAT unless someone responds.. it's such a broad topic @n@;;