For sale or not, it doesn't matter, just show me comfort dragons. Just no jaguar/rosette, clouded/leopard and keel. The visual imagery of these trigger tryptophobia and other unpleasant associations for me.
Anything else, fire away(and if for sale, list your prices.)
(please skip below if you don't want to read a short vent. apologies in advance, but I'm this close to another meltdown and at risk of getting my sole emotional support cut off right now, you don't have to read it if you don't want to!)
tldr, I had to rush some last minute work, and my mother starts harassing me about doing it late(while telling me to do it tomorrow morning, just because she wants me off the computer). I know I don't have time to do it tomorrow, so I had to finish it tonight.
Mother dearest then goes off on several tangents while lecturing me, best summed up as:
- I'm not ever allowed to make the same mistake of forgetting or leaving things till the last minute, even if it's a genuine mistake that I've tried to avoid.
- apparently I'm not allowed to rant to anyone either, because ranting = slander and I'll "give people the wrong idea when the problem is you forgetting your work". Spoiler alert, I was fine until she started going off on me.
- I'm "cruel, selfish and manipulative" for ranting to friends and again, giving them the "wrong idea", and that "of course they'll side with you, they're friends"
- I "don't bother to fix my own problems and prevent them from happening again" (she tells me this while I'm rushing to set reminders for myself AND get the work done. Go figure.)
Anything else, fire away(and if for sale, list your prices.)
(please skip below if you don't want to read a short vent. apologies in advance, but I'm this close to another meltdown and at risk of getting my sole emotional support cut off right now, you don't have to read it if you don't want to!)
tldr, I had to rush some last minute work, and my mother starts harassing me about doing it late(while telling me to do it tomorrow morning, just because she wants me off the computer). I know I don't have time to do it tomorrow, so I had to finish it tonight.
Mother dearest then goes off on several tangents while lecturing me, best summed up as:
- I'm not ever allowed to make the same mistake of forgetting or leaving things till the last minute, even if it's a genuine mistake that I've tried to avoid.
- apparently I'm not allowed to rant to anyone either, because ranting = slander and I'll "give people the wrong idea when the problem is you forgetting your work". Spoiler alert, I was fine until she started going off on me.
- I'm "cruel, selfish and manipulative" for ranting to friends and again, giving them the "wrong idea", and that "of course they'll side with you, they're friends"
- I "don't bother to fix my own problems and prevent them from happening again" (she tells me this while I'm rushing to set reminders for myself AND get the work done. Go figure.)