General Discussion

I wasn't homophobic but I used to be THAT kid who made jokes about AtTaCk HeLiCoPtErS and how your gender is what in your pants

Well, life decided aight *YOINK*

And now Im a Bisexual non binary genderfluid demiromantic

How the turntables

is there a specific term for a person who is fine with being a girl but is ok with any pronouns? or is that just a laid back cisgender person?

@MintyKitsune
sounds like pronoun nonconforming (pnc) but i could be wrong

@StarrberryPills

thank you! ill look into that :)

[quote name="@MintyKitsune" date="2022-03-06 13:14:53" ] is there a specific term for a person who is fine with being a girl but is ok with any pronouns? or is that just a laid back cisgender person? [/quote] cant say personally, but i know my boyfriend just kinda doesnt care about gender. doesnt particularly identify with anything and uses any pronouns and gendered terms. doesnt need a label bc she literally just doesnt care enough to have one. are they cis? ehhh thats a hard question to answer bc for a lot of people being not cis is based of the fact that the gender you are is different from what you were assigned at birth. his gender, in his own words, just kinda doesnt exist. shes indifferent to it mainly, but finds the use of mixed pronouns fun and has stated some occasional desires for body stuff apart from what would be standard based on his agab. in the end, what you want to label yourself is entirely up to you. you dont have to use anything if you dont want to. just go with what you want and what you feel is best at the time and feel free to change that later if you feel better using something else later on

@MintyKitsune
I have a cisgender lesbian friend who uses any pronouns! She is a girl, not enby in anyway, she just doesn’t mind what pronouns people use for them.
I also know some cis people who are fine with “she/they” or “he/they” too and some who dislike being called anything other than “she/her” and “he/him”, it really just depends on the person!

Pronouns =/= gender, so I’d say you’re still a cis girl, just alright with any pronouns. Though, if you’re looking for a specific label, I don’t really know one

nonbinary bi/pan person here!!! [points at the identity buttons in my sig]
heavily into xenogenders bc its a lovely form of self expression <33 living my best life!

Asexual and aromantic over here! I'm only out to a small handful of loved ones irl (most of whom are also ace and/or aro themselves, so I didn't have to give a powerpoint presentation lol). Flight Rising must have the largest collection of aspec folks I've ever seen. They weren't kidding when they said the thing about aspecs and dragons!

I've said this before, but i'm Bat, Berry, or Bread, proud ace, trans, queer kiddo.
And I'm here with a question!
It's not about me personally, but actually about a character. (Although I may just also wonder for myself...)
So, I've seen some people identify as, for example, he/him/they, or, like, she/her/it. I'm kind of wondering, is that technically the same as he/they and she/it, or is it different?