I'm a Genderfluid Lesbian! I prefer He/Him pronouns when being referred to, but personally I refer to myself with it/its. I knew I didn't feel like a "girl" entirely when I was in early middle school and even had different names for how I "felt" that day. It wasn't until after I graduated high school did I identify with genderfluid! I was a year or two after that I realized I loved women exclusively.
I'm not out to anyone except friends, but I truly hope to announce to my parents and a few other family members that I am a lesbian. I feel confident they will still accept me, it's just a matter of nerves! When it comes to my genderfluid status, I am in no way ready to announce it to anyone BUT my friends. Unfortunately, it seems too "new" to my current family to understand and feel like more time is needed before I can explain it. Wish me luck for when I can finally do both!
I'm a Genderfluid Lesbian! I prefer He/Him pronouns when being referred to, but personally I refer to myself with it/its. I knew I didn't feel like a "girl" entirely when I was in early middle school and even had different names for how I "felt" that day. It wasn't until after I graduated high school did I identify with genderfluid! I was a year or two after that I realized I loved women exclusively.
I'm not out to anyone except friends, but I truly hope to announce to my parents and a few other family members that I am a lesbian. I feel confident they will still accept me, it's just a matter of nerves! When it comes to my genderfluid status, I am in no way ready to announce it to anyone BUT my friends. Unfortunately, it seems too "new" to my current family to understand and feel like more time is needed before I can explain it. Wish me luck for when I can finally do both!
I had this one moment at school where this one kid handed me a note that said "your pretty" on one side and on the other said "gay". He thought it was hilarious. I snorted and said "pretty close, but nope. Bi." As a little joke to myself, and my friend turned to me with a look of pure confusion and I realised they heard what I said. Quite busted. In the moment I just sort of casually ran away and died but now it's funny.
There was also this time that I was just chatting with some people on a group chat, and an old friend of mine just goes "I didn't know you were Lgbt+!" And I just drew a blank. Where she got that from, I had no idea but it made me super uncomfortable, as I had only told one person (the person from above) out of the ten people that was in the chat at the time. Oops.
To this day I have no idea how they knew that and it weirds me out.
I had this one moment at school where this one kid handed me a note that said "your pretty" on one side and on the other said "gay". He thought it was hilarious. I snorted and said "pretty close, but nope. Bi." As a little joke to myself, and my friend turned to me with a look of pure confusion and I realised they heard what I said. Quite busted. In the moment I just sort of casually ran away and died but now it's funny.
There was also this time that I was just chatting with some people on a group chat, and an old friend of mine just goes "I didn't know you were Lgbt+!" And I just drew a blank. Where she got that from, I had no idea but it made me super uncomfortable, as I had only told one person (the person from above) out of the ten people that was in the chat at the time. Oops.
To this day I have no idea how they knew that and it weirds me out.
At what point will I be certain of my own sexuality because I'm 26 and I still have no idea. Some days I'm this and some days I'm that and other days I'm nothing at all.
Vague description but I find it better than listing a bunch of sexualities. I know for certain that men make me uncomfortable and I apologise if that sounds sexist, I really don't mean it to.
But when I have romantic dreams it's usually with a guy ands girl far prettier than I am but I am her. If that makes sense. I think it does.
I was told that maybe I do have an attraction towards men but I am sure that can't be true. I wouldn't be opposed to dating a guy but as long as stayed within comfortable terms. Aka no nakedness and you know... That stuff.
On the other hand, I do think of women in that way but not as myself. Not them with me. Not that I make fake profiles on tinder or what have you, just imagining a world where I'm not myself.
I've tried putting myself out there but the androgynous look doesn't exactly win me a lot. I get mistaken for being "butch" when I'm absolutely not.
Girls want different things then men. It's not easy to identify what.
Also, fictional characters. I know it's a bit odd. But some men are big yes. But real men are big no. Anyway.
I'm confused. That'll be written on my urn or something.
At what point will I be certain of my own sexuality because I'm 26 and I still have no idea. Some days I'm this and some days I'm that and other days I'm nothing at all.
Vague description but I find it better than listing a bunch of sexualities. I know for certain that men make me uncomfortable and I apologise if that sounds sexist, I really don't mean it to.
But when I have romantic dreams it's usually with a guy ands girl far prettier than I am but I am her. If that makes sense. I think it does.
I was told that maybe I do have an attraction towards men but I am sure that can't be true. I wouldn't be opposed to dating a guy but as long as stayed within comfortable terms. Aka no nakedness and you know... That stuff.
On the other hand, I do think of women in that way but not as myself. Not them with me. Not that I make fake profiles on tinder or what have you, just imagining a world where I'm not myself.
I've tried putting myself out there but the androgynous look doesn't exactly win me a lot. I get mistaken for being "butch" when I'm absolutely not.
Girls want different things then men. It's not easy to identify what.
Also, fictional characters. I know it's a bit odd. But some men are big yes. But real men are big no. Anyway.
I'm confused. That'll be written on my urn or something.
@MyHartWillDrogon All of that is totally valid! Also, "I'm confused" should probably be written on the urn/tombstone of every LGBT person ever, haha.
@MyHartWillDrogon All of that is totally valid! Also, "I'm confused" should probably be written on the urn/tombstone of every LGBT person ever, haha.
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hi im a bi girl! i've got a whole bundle of stories pertaining to my sexuality, sadly though most of them are kinda depressing. like being outted by ex-friends, bierasure, and just straight up biphobia. the only person i actually did come out to with my own free will was my sister, who responded really well to it! my parents still don't know, but are suspect, and i don't really want to come out to them anytime soon (they're not only homophobes, but even bigger biphobes.... like my mom thinks bi people created aids, thinks we all like threesomes and cheat on everybody)
hi im a bi girl! i've got a whole bundle of stories pertaining to my sexuality, sadly though most of them are kinda depressing. like being outted by ex-friends, bierasure, and just straight up biphobia. the only person i actually did come out to with my own free will was my sister, who responded really well to it! my parents still don't know, but are suspect, and i don't really want to come out to them anytime soon (they're not only homophobes, but even bigger biphobes.... like my mom thinks bi people created aids, thinks we all like threesomes and cheat on everybody)
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Trans FtM panromantic acesexual.
Couldn't find myself till I was well out of the house and away from my mothers grasp, and she still pines about losing her 'daughter' and no grandchildren from me. I talk to her rarely for my fathers sake. And finding a partner? Well it's been a struggle but I'm a stubborn fool not giving up yet. There's a person I have been texting with a while who I am hopeful on starting an actual relationship with, is completely fine with all my 'stuff' as I call it.
Life ain't easy but you gotta push on to give it the middle finger and keep living. There's someone out there somewhere feeling the same, and those rooting for you to stick through it.
Couldn't find myself till I was well out of the house and away from my mothers grasp, and she still pines about losing her 'daughter' and no grandchildren from me. I talk to her rarely for my fathers sake. And finding a partner? Well it's been a struggle but I'm a stubborn fool not giving up yet. There's a person I have been texting with a while who I am hopeful on starting an actual relationship with, is completely fine with all my 'stuff' as I call it.
Life ain't easy but you gotta push on to give it the middle finger and keep living. There's someone out there somewhere feeling the same, and those rooting for you to stick through it.
P sure I might be aro so yea uh
Fun times questioning hours
Questioning all of it at once is wild
P sure I might be aro so yea uh
Fun times questioning hours
Questioning all of it at once is wild
Messages are welcome :)
I'm not a bit part of the LGBT+ community, but I don't mind people who are! Most of my friends are gay/lesbian. I personally don't know about myself (don't care), but I think I might be Aromantic. It means that I'm not romantically attracted to anyone.
I'm not a bit part of the LGBT+ community, but I don't mind people who are! Most of my friends are gay/lesbian. I personally don't know about myself (don't care), but I think I might be Aromantic. It means that I'm not romantically attracted to anyone.
hi! im genderglitched (basically genderfluid but waCKY like what even is goin on with my gender) and demi-bisexual. i use he/him pronouns most often, as detailed in my sig and bio!
just trying out the label genderglitched but so far im liking it
hi! im genderglitched (basically genderfluid but waCKY like what even is goin on with my gender) and demi-bisexual. i use he/him pronouns most often, as detailed in my sig and bio!
just trying out the label genderglitched but so far im liking it
hi i'm mal solaire funeralscythe-goodfriendbuddy, check my clan profile for more info