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demesne
Thanks for the ping. This is really neat, actually.
My only correction to what you have included here is your use of the term "cisgenders." Cisgender is an adjective, not a noun, so you would say "cisgender people" or "cis people" to shorten it.
And now some further discussion that isn't quite corrections for Harbinger.
As for neutrois vs. agender, they are very similar meanings. It's primarily a matter of preference, similar to "lady," "woman" and "girl" being used by different adults who consider themselves female.
Gray-aces also include people who are not "grossed out" by say, mating, and will do it for their partner, or can even enjoy it, but do not usually crave it. Demisexual people are considered gray-ace. My preferences are super complex.
I am a lesbian heterodemisexual panromantic genderfluid demiwoman. I usually just identify as a bisexual genderqueer person, though. I'm really attached to the word "bisexual." Fought -really hard for that-. <_< But yeah, that puts me on several different spectrums. I'm on the asexual spectrum, the polysexual (that is, not just heterosexual or homosexual, aka monosexual) spectrum, the trans spectrum, etc. and so forth... Yay for intersecting identities!
A quick correction for Demesne.
Also, regarding "transmasculine" and "transfeminine." These are actually umbrella terms for spectrums of transness. So a trans woman still fits under the term "transfeminine," but so does Harbinger, as a demigirl. Some people do disagree with this term, though, so it's one that usually is only used when talking -very- broadly.
Aaand finally, I am -far- from an expert.
My main advice to everyone? If someone says "Hey, I identify as X, can you please not to Y with regards to X?" is to listen, and acknowledge, and try not to 'splain your way out of being accommodating to people with those -actual- identities.
