General Discussion

I am non-binary, but biologically speaking, my gender is female. It is really hard to tell, because I have a unisex wardrobe. When I speak, my voice sounds like one that a man would have, but when I sing, my voice sounds very much like a woman. Yesterday, I volunteered to help out at my old school, in sewing (something that I'm actually good at), and Emi, a girl in first grade asked me to sing for her, Tyler, Andrew, Logan and Nikolai, the others who were sitting there. I sang for them, and Tyler asked "Hey, why do you speak like a boy, but when you sing you sounds like a girl?". I smiled and said "Maybe, because I am a girl?".

(Honestly.. who is going to tell children of the age 8 and younger, that they are non-binary? But I didn't mind, because I adore children! <3 :))

I think that most realize that I am male, but only through speech or through text such as this. People have mistaken my handwriting for a female's at times.

Oh yes. OOOOOOOh yes.
Once there was a legit survey on the telephone and after it was done he was like "You're a boy, right?" Me: No, I'm a girl with the deepest voice.
Seriously though, my voice is so deep people OFTEN thing I'm male. What can I say, I can sing deeper than my FATHER. @StormyParakeet

when I was young, A friend of mine was like, see ya later dude and I was like "i'm a girl" THE LOOK ON HIS FACE OML RED AS A TOMATO

I think I look feminine enough for people to know I'm a female. There might've been like, one instance where someone thought I was a dude but I can't recall any specific events.

Online, yes. But since most of my avatar characters are male I could see why people would think I'm male.

People online seem to think just because I sometimes role-play as a male character makes me a guy, when I've literally told them that I'm 100% female -.-

Online, I'm frequently mistaken as a male. Understandable in many cases, given I'm not all that "feminine."

But one time, I was in a Discord group call. One of the members heard my voice and instantly thought I was a boy, BUT HE ALREADY KNEW I WAS FEMALE. He apologized for thinking I was a girl (even though I am); that was the most AMAZING thing ever to happen to me.

I wear big hoodies and jeans and hats, my look is about as neutral as can be. And every time I go outside and actually kinda talk to strangers, I get both 'sir' and 'young lady'.

The best experience i had was when i was buying a hat and the cashier spent the entire transaction trying to figure out if i was a boy or a girl. Tbh I think if i was born with a different set of chromosomes, I wouldn't look any different.