I can't really seem to do it?
I'm not sure why but whenever I try to make friends with someone it feels like I'm intruding on something that's already built and I just make a fool of myself.
Does anyone know how to remedy this?
I can't really seem to do it?
I'm not sure why but whenever I try to make friends with someone it feels like I'm intruding on something that's already built and I just make a fool of myself.
Does anyone know how to remedy this?
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luckgandor I don't know how to remedy it, but you're not alone, if that helps at all. Many people are going through the same thing, myself included. 'Tis been hard to make friends lately.
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luckgandor I don't know how to remedy it, but you're not alone, if that helps at all. Many people are going through the same thing, myself included. 'Tis been hard to make friends lately.
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luckgandor Yeah, join the socially awkward club. We try not to talk. It's a club of not talking to each other. It's good fun, for hermits :/
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luckgandor Yeah, join the socially awkward club. We try not to talk. It's a club of not talking to each other. It's good fun, for hermits :/
Caught between the mundanely awkward and the existentially impossible.
-Alice Isn't Dead, Part 2, chapter 4, 11:55
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Zygon nice to know im not the only one ha....
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Im super new and socially awkward as well T^T feel free to send me request if youd like ^^
Im super new and socially awkward as well T^T feel free to send me request if youd like ^^
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I'd say to try and find people I suppose, 'lingering' on the edges of a group, basically trying not to involve themselves too much, they'd probably be happy to have someone to talk to. Or find someone who's not in any real group. Take my advice lightly, I've only got a handful of close friends, not a 101 okay ones. ^^'
I'd say to try and find people I suppose, 'lingering' on the edges of a group, basically trying not to involve themselves too much, they'd probably be happy to have someone to talk to. Or find someone who's not in any real group. Take my advice lightly, I've only got a handful of close friends, not a 101 okay ones. ^^'
Whoa, seeing myself here was a trip lol. Been over 2 years since I posted that! The situation hasn't improved much lmao
Whoa, seeing myself here was a trip lol. Been over 2 years since I posted that! The situation hasn't improved much lmao
Caught between the mundanely awkward and the existentially impossible.
-Alice Isn't Dead, Part 2, chapter 4, 11:55
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ok, this is a weird trick I've figured out. The way to make friends is...act as though you're already friends with them.
I noticed people doing it to me, like they'd come over really excitedly as though we had been friends forever and I was like "????" but I was also like "!!!!!" because I wasn't adverse to this At All. and then we were friends! Wow!
Obviously not right out the gate, but if there's an acquaintance you're not sure how to move along with just....assume you're already friends. It could go well.
ok, this is a weird trick I've figured out. The way to make friends is...act as though you're already friends with them.
I noticed people doing it to me, like they'd come over really excitedly as though we had been friends forever and I was like "????" but I was also like "!!!!!" because I wasn't adverse to this At All. and then we were friends! Wow!
Obviously not right out the gate, but if there's an acquaintance you're not sure how to move along with just....assume you're already friends. It could go well.
The name's Isaac, very nice to meet you!
Kriah's advice is really helpful! I do this online (as it's the only way to make friends when you're homeschooled, really) and I've been able to meet so many more people.
As cliche and dumb as it sounds, be yourself be unique, be a monster. I found that doing so can actually bring the true friends closer and the fake ones farther; it helps when doing so.
Kriah's advice is really helpful! I do this online (as it's the only way to make friends when you're homeschooled, really) and I've been able to meet so many more people.
As cliche and dumb as it sounds, be yourself be unique, be a monster. I found that doing so can actually bring the true friends closer and the fake ones farther; it helps when doing so.